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Friday, February 25, 2005

erm. i got tis frm the net. not sure how i got to it though. well, it's good. juz read it !

Okay girls. As a female, it has occurred to me that a LOT of us misuse that line. Don't. If he says "I want to go out with my friends tonight instead of over to your grandparents house, is that okay?" and you say "It's fine," MEAN IT. As much as you would like to think that you two are SO CLOSE that he can read your mind and would know when it's NOT fine, there are virtually no mind-reading boyfriends out there. So remember: No, he is NOT supposed to know. Dating you does not make him a psychic.

Let's see how this would work:
Him: I want to go out with my friends tonight, instead of going over to visit with your grandparents. One of the guys got tickets to the premiere of the newest Vin Diesel movie, and they decided to make it a guys' night out. Are you okay with that?

You: It's fine.

----the next day----

You: *fume fume fume*

Him: What's wrong?

You: You KNOW what's wrong

Him: Uh, no?

You: I'm not telling you then. You can just go out with your friends every night.

See the problem? If you convince him that it's fine when it really isn't, and then you get mad at him as soon as he's back from his guys' night out, NO he's not going to immediately realize why. Be honest with him. If you mislead him intentionally by telling him everything is fine, that's not honesty. Getting mad over it after you said "It's fine" is just flatout unhealthy for the relationship too.

Let's go over that situation again, shall we?
Him: I want to go out with my friends tonight, instead of going over to visit with your grandparents. One of the guys got tickets to the premiere of the newest Vin Diesel movie, and they decided to make it a guys' night out. Are you okay with that?

You: Well, I'm disappointed. My grandparents were really looking forward to meeting you. Maybe you could stop by before you guys go out?


geddit ?? so next tyme dun sae wad he wants to hear. sae wad yoo think although sometimes it's diffucult.

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